According to where I am right now, we have finally crossed over. Glory be to God. To some 2017 was a tough year,to some ,a great year despite all odds the gift of life is most important. Count your blessings and after naming them one by one, it will greatly surprised you that you won. In this new year, enter with some resolutions and include God in the list as HE would ensure that your steps are directed to the right parts. Forgive those who brought you down but be cautious and learn from your past mistakes. Keep busy and earn a living no matter how meagre you earn because you can't depend on others for all your needs and securities. Value the people that will come into your life in this year 2018 because nobody comes into your life by accident. Follow your heart and seek happiness. Believe in yourself and your abilities. Discover who you are and give your life a meaning. I may not know you but bear in mind that I love you and I wish you a favourable ,beautiful, prosperous ,great and a wonderful year.You shall live and fulfill your destiny.CHEERS.🎄✌👍👋💵🎉🍇🌎🌍🌐
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SEXUAL HARASSMENT IN NOLLYWOOD
noUKEJE TALKS SEXUAL HARASSMENT IN NOLLYWOOD Ukeje Actor talks sexual harassment in Nollywood "It's not a do or die affair that you have to grant a sexual favour to get that particular job" OC Ukeje has spoken to Pulse Nigeria on the existence of sexual harassment in Nollywood. According to the "Catch.er" actor, both men and women are victims of sexual harassment in the Nigerian film industry. He advised that while the career [acting] can be a do or die affair, getting a specific job which entails granting sexual favours shouldn't be. Encouraging consistency, the actor shared that while he has been in the industry for 16 years, he only started getting recognition six years ago. Read interview below. On the existence of Sexual harassment I have been here for sometime and I have heard all kinds of things in terms of women's experiences. And believe it or not, I have also heard a few guys' experiences. I think sometimes people think guys don't get sexually harassed, but they do, whether it is by guys or by women. It's almost as if people think that is the answer to getting ahead. It's like you must demand for sexual favours before you put the person in front. play OC Ukeje makes music debut (YouTube screenshot ) ALSO READ: SEXUAL HARASSMENT IN NOLLYWOOD IS AN EPIDEMIC; BUT WHO WILL SPEAK UP? Advice for victims of sexual harassment I just think that if this business is what you really want to do, and everyone that you have met is demanding for sexual favour, you should take your time. It's not a do or die affair. The do or die affair is that it's a career and you want to do it. It's not a do or die affair that you have to grant a sexual favour to get that particular job. ALSO READ: UFUOMA MCDERMOTT TALKS SEXUAL HARASSMENT IN NOLLYWOOD Consistency and Patience I have been working at this for 16 years, but I think that most of Nigeria have known me for maybe five or six years because 2012 was probably the first time people actually started seeing me. But I have been here for much longer. So I'm saying that in all those time that people didn't know me, it was me just building one thing on top of the other. The job is not a do or die affair, the career can be. But I don't think that a sexual favour for a specific job is the way to go. After some time, people are going to get to know you. And now that there's social media, you can begin to create your own small clips and whatnot that people can see. Cases of sexual harassment in Nollywood play Lawal Dolapo has accused Yemi Solade of demanding for sex for a movie role In November, an Instagram user posted an allegation that Yoruba actor Yomi Fabiyi harassed her sexually over nine years ago. Also in November, an aspiring Nollywood actress accused popular Yoruba actor Yemi Solade of demanding for sex in exchange for a movie role. As a newbie in Nollywood, Blessing Egbe, who is popular for “The Women” and “Lekki Wives,” once had to slap off the “smelly hand” of a big producer/marketer, who caressed her breast when he saw her at a producer’s office. In 2015, Rahama Sadau took to Instagram to accuse Adam Zango of denying her of a role because she refused his sexual advances. She, however, apologized the next day, describing her post as ‘childish.’ |Like Pulse Nigeria Entertainment|Follow Pulse Nigeria Entertainment   Do you ever witness news or have a story that should be featured on Pulse Nigeria? Submit your stories, pictures and videos to us now via WhatsApp: +2349055172167, Social Media @pulsenigeria247: #PulseEyewitness & DM or Email: eyewitness@pulse.ng. More information here. AUTHOR  Chidumga Izuzu is a Senior Associate at Pulse. A graduate of Mass Communication, Chidumga is a film aficionado actively interested in publishing movie reviews and cutting edge articles related to movies and the various film industries. E-mail: movies@pulse.ng TOP 3 12018 10 most anticipated Hollywood movies of next year 2"Price of Fame" A new telenovela is coming to Telemundo, here's... 3"The Wedding Party" Do we need another sequel?  RELATED ARTICLES Yomi Fabiyi Actor accused of sexual harassment explains why he refused to meet accuser Ufuoma McDermott "Sexual harassment has everything to do with power" Harvey Weinstein Filmmaker sued by actress who claims he raped her Casting-Couch Sexual harassment in Nollywood is an epidemic; but who will speak up? 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Stay Single Until You Meet Someone Like This!
Stay Single Until You Meet Someone Like This! You should stay single until you meet someone that’s your soulmate, your best friend, and your better half. Stay single until you find a person that can make you laugh. Find someone who can heal any pain they did not cause and that can make you forget about it. Find someone that can show you love is not pain or confusion. You may want to stay single until you find a person that can make you sleep better at night as they’re beside you. Stay single until you meet someone whose presence can make you feel better. You should find someone that can say how they feel about you and can express their feelings and emotions without any fear. You need to stay single until you find a person that believes in you as well as believes in your relationship. Find someone that believes in you even when nobody else does. Stay single until you find a person that you miss before you even say goodbye. Find someone that can make you become a better person. You should find someone that can teach you to trust others. Stay single until you meet someone that you think of whenever you listen to love songs. Stay single until you find someone that shows up. You may want to stay single until you find a person that can make you feel better on a bad day. Find someone that can make you redefine what it means to be in love. Stay single until you find a person that can introduce you to their family and make you feel like part of it. Find someone that can respect you as well as treat you the way you deserve. Stay single until you meet someone that can make you sure they want you in their life. You should find someone that can make you happier than you thought you could be. Source: themindsjournal.com
Wednesday, 27 December 2017
WHEN A WOMAN IS TRULY IN LOVE
Blessed is the man who is loved by a woman. The love of a woman flows like a fountain of water and sometimes uncontrollable. In some foreign countries I had stayed so far I noticed that love has no class or level. You could witness where a defined classy lady falls for a man who has absolutely no class quite unlike what we see and hear among us.In my home country,you can't get a slay queen without a loaded wallet. You must have fleet of cars parked, may be some properties in some choicest areas oof woman who genuinely loves a man can do anything to prove her love.Behaviours Women Show When They’re Truly In Love. Women tend to be much more in touch with their emotions, and yet, they sometimes keep those emotions close to the chest. They don’t want to give too much away too soon. They are subtle and complex in their signals. Sometimes, guys feel like they have to be mind readers to figure out what is going on inside their women. But, when they are falling in love, they let their guard down and the signs become more
1. SHE CUTS OUT OTHER GUYS On the dating scene, it is not uncommon for people to have more than one dating situation going on at one time. But when a woman starts to fall for someone, they cut out those other suitors. They are no longer accepting applications. The position has been filled. Thank you for your interest. 2. SHE USES THE ROYAL WE She starts thinking of you two as a couple and refers to you both in conversation as a single unit. She uses the royal we. “We would love to attend” “We brought you a housewarming gift” She starts thinking of you as part of her team. 3. SHE MAKES PLANS FOR YOU BOTH She starts making plans for you both to do things together. She doesn’t just plan to go away on vacation by herself or with her friends. She plans to go on vacation with you. She plans to go to dinner with you. She assumes that you will want to do those things together. She is thinking of you and her as a team. 4. SHE GIVES MEANINGFUL GIFTS She doesn’t just give you a throwaway gift that anyone could have gotten for you. She puts a lot of thought into what you want, what you like and what you would most enjoy. She listens when you mention that you like a certain band, tv show, style of clothing or sports team. She pays attention to the details and gets you something that fits you perfectly. It is definitely the thought that counts and she is thinking about you. 5. SHE FINDS YOUR QUIRKS ENDEARING Your friends may joke about your quirks. Your family may find those quirks annoying as hell. But, she loves those weird idiosyncrasies about you. To her, they are what makes you so uniquely you. She falls in love with those little quirks of yours. 6. SHE THINKS ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME She can’t stop thinking about you. She gets distracted because she is daydreaming about you and her. She finds it hard to concentrate because you keep popping up in her day-to-day thoughts. She also lets you know she is thinking about you. She will text you or call or email just to let you know that she is thinking about you. 7. SHE ACTS SILLY She turns into a giddy schoolgirl when you are around. She feels awkward and clumsy. She giggles about things that she normally wouldn’t. It is her love and joy bubbling up from within and she cannot hold it in any longer. 8. SHE MISSES YOU Yes, you just saw each other five minutes ago when you walked into the kitchen to heat up that burrito, but she already misses your company. She wants more of your time together. She wants more of that emotional high she is getting from being around you. 9. SHE CAN’T GET ENOUGH Because being around you is intoxicating to her, she wants to spend a lot of time with you. She is thinking about you all of the time and she misses you intensely when you are gone. She wants to keep that high going, and so, she will be slow to say goodbye. She will linger long after the date is over. She will squeeze as much time as she can out of you before you have to go. She is addicted to you and her growing love. Related article: 11 Things Men Do When They’re Truly In Love 10. SHE IS SELF-CONSCIOUS She wants to look her best for you. She will take forever getting ready, picking out her clothes, doing her makeup and making sure everything is perfect. She feels super self-conscious because she wants to knock your socks off when you see her. 11. SHE TELLS YOU HOW SHE FEELS The biggest and most stressful thing (for her) is that she tells you how she feels. This is a big step as it makes her very vulnerable to being rejected if you don’t feel the same way. It takes a lot of courage to admit your feelings, but when she is in love, she doesn’t care. She has to tell the world how she feels about you.
Your Only Source of happiness must not only come from your relationship
Signs That Your Sense Of Happiness Is Dependent On Your Relationship. Even though a relationship should make you happy in life, it shouldn’t be the sole source of happiness of your life. While it’s important for you to be vulnerable and open with one another in a relationship, you still have to be able to maintain your sense of independence as an individual outside of your relationship. You don’t want your sense of self-worth and validation to be tied into whether you’re in a relationship or not. If you let your sense of happiness depend on your romance, you are placing too much unnecessary pressure on your relationship – and you risk imploding as a couple as a result of all of that pressure. You should love and respect yourself enough as an individual to have a healthy lifestyle going on for you regardless of whether you’re in a relationship or not. And also, you should give your relationship that space and freedom it needs to come into its own – without all of the pressure that you willingly place on it to make you happy. Contrary to what many people may think, there is no other human being on the face of this earth who can supply you with all of the happiness that you need to get on with life. You have to understand that if you make your partner feel like your sense of happiness is dependent on them, then you risk making them feel overwhelmed. They don’t want that kind of pressure on them. No one does. Yes, they want you to be happy. But they would be too afraid to take on the challenge of being your sole source of happiness because they know that they won’t always be able to make you happy for the rest of your life. There is always a serious fear of severe disappointment and abandonment there whenever you know that your partner is relying too much on you to be happy. Of course, you shouldn’t be thinking that just because you see yourself as an independent individual that you are exempt from exhibiting codependent tendencies in your relationship with your partner. And that’s normal. But it’s always important for the both of you to make a conscious choice to be somewhat independent so as to relieve your relationship of any unnecessary pressure. Remember that your relationship needs to breathe, and it can’t do that if you are constantly placing a stranglehold on it with your neediness. But how do you know if you’re being clingy or needy? How do you know if you’re relying too much on your relationship for your happiness? How do you know if you’ve happened to cross the line when it comes to codependency? Well, there are a few signs that you could keep an eye out for. Be self-aware and make sure that you don’t poison your relationship with your own neediness. Here are 7 signs that your sense of happiness is dependent on your relationship: 1. You automatically adopt your partner’s mood regardless of how you really feel. You always take on your partner’s mood not because you’re empathetic, but because you are too afraid of what would happen if the two of you don’t fall on the same page with one another. You care too much about maintaining peace so you end up faking how you feel. 2. You always rely on your partner to give you validation for who you are. You are never sure of who you really are or where you stand and you rely too much on your partner to give you the strength that you need to really stand up for your convictions. 3. You feel slightly jealous whenever your partner finds happiness outside of the relationship. You know that your relationship is really the only thing in the world that can bring you happiness and so you feel threatened when you know that your partner is starting to find happiness elsewhere.
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MERRY CHRISTMAS TO MY FANS
IFYCHUCKSBLOG ECHOES A HEARTRENDING MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL HER FANS.THIS IS A SEASON OF LOVE AND GENEROSITY. INSURE YOU ARE GENEROUS TOWARDS YOUR FRIENDS, RELATIVES,THE NEEDY,THE LESS PRIVILEGED. AS A SEASON OF LOVE, SPREAD LOVE LIKE WILDFIRE IN THE HARMATTAN BUT DON'T BREAK HEARTS. FLAUNT YOUR RICHES, FLAUNT YOUR BEAUTY, FLAUNT WHAT YOU HAVE GOT BUT NOT IN AN OFFENSIVE WAY. LIFE IS NOT A CHOICE BUT IT IS A GIFT,BE THANKFUL AND DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED. ENJOY YOUR HOLIDAY AND TRAVEL AND DRIVE SAFELY. I LOVE YOU....